A domestic abuse survivor from the West Midlands has reassured other victims they are 'not alone' and urged them to take the difficult step in seeking help.
'Chloe' was able to escape from an abusive partner with her two children after receiving help and support from Black Country Women's Aid, culminating in her going to court to secure a restraining order against the perpetrator.
Such was her positive experience of the charity that she has decided to return as a volunteer to support others going through similar ordeals.
Charity braces for World Cup spike
Her message comes as the charity said it was braced for a spike in abuse as the World Cup kicked off in the United States this week. Reports of abuse rise during international tournaments, particularly when the England team lose.
'Chloe' was one of a number of survivors who shared their experiences with Victims Minister Caroline Atkinson, who visited Black Country Women's Aid on Thursday (June 11).
Positive experience with the charity
She said: "My experience of Black Country Women's Aid was really positive. They took me seriously right from the start. The help I received was very quick and they also took the time to educate me and explain things clearly."
"They even had a good understanding of the situation and could almost predict his actions and what he was likely to do next, which made me feel much more prepared."
"Unfortunately, my situation did escalate and I did end up going through court procedures. But they were fantastic through supporting me throughout that process."
"They helped me feel confident in court, they made me feel seen and heard and helped me understand that none of it was my fault."
"They also worked alongside other organisations to get my children the support they needed, like play therapy because they'd also been affected by everything that had happened."
"It has made a massive difference. I don't think I'd be here. The support has finished now but I'm coming back to volunteer. I've healed enough and I'm ready to give back now."
Emotional message to victims
In an emotional, direct message to victims, 'Chloe' said: "You do not have to go through this by yourself. It takes a lot of courage to reach out but it is the best step you'll ever take."
"I want you to understand that none of this was your fault and you never deserved to be treated this way. You are not crazy and what you are experiencing is real."
"You are a lot stronger than you realise even when it doesn't feel like it. There is help available and there is a way out."
"Life can be so much better than it is right now. You can do this with the support of Black Country Women's Aid. They will listen, believe you and help you every step of the way."
"They will help you find your voice again, gain back your confidence and build a safe, peaceful future for you and if you have children as well. There is hope and you deserve to be happy, safe and respected."
Helplines and support
People can access the National Domestic Abuse Hotline on 0808 2000 247 and the Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Line on 0808 500 2222.
Black Country Women's Aid can be contacted on 0121 553 0090 Mondays to Fridays from 9am to 5pm. A 24-hour helpline for those who need advice or are seeking a refuge place outside of office hours can call 0121 552 6448.
Anyone in immediate danger is urged to call the police on 999.
