Modern life is transforming how we interact on our streets as traditional social habits continue to decline. New research reveals that nearly half of the population has never sat down for a cup of tea with their neighbours.
The study found that many small gestures that once brought people together are now rare. Approximately three in 10 adults admit they have never stepped inside their local pub for a drink. These changing habits mean that one in 10 people does not know the name of a single person living on their road. This lack of contact is having a real impact on how proud we feel about our hometowns.
Decline in neighbourly assistance
A study of 2,000 adults found that 41% rarely or never assist neighbours with small jobs, such as carrying bags or watching for parcels. Additionally, 39% of residents have never asked to borrow or offered to lend common household items like tools or sugar.
Expert insights on community wellbeing
Professor Andrea Wigfield, from Sheffield Hallam University, said: “This research highlights how vital strong local connections are to our wellbeing. Loneliness and disconnection are rising across all age groups and are linked to serious physical and mental health risks, including anxiety, depression and cardiovascular disease.
“Simple, everyday interactions — like saying hello, sharing food or helping a neighbour — can play a powerful role in building a sense of belonging and improving wellbeing. Even small moments of connection can make a meaningful difference to how we feel about our lives and communities.”
Initiatives to foster community
The findings were released by The Eden Project as it invites people to take part in The Big Lunch and The Big Help Out between June 5 and 8. These events aim to make it easier for people to meet their neighbours through food and shared activities. Lindsey Brummitt, from the Eden Project, said: “What this research suggests is that some of the habits that can help us stay connected and feel better about life and where we live are not expensive, glamorous or out of reach — they’re local, ordinary and right on our doorstep.”
“We’re talking about things like saying hello, sharing a cuppa, lending a hand locally or popping to the local pub. These things can help create a sense of connection and belonging, and this is why ideas like The Big Lunch and The Big Help Out – as easy, low-pressure ways for people to connect and be active in their community- still matter so much.”
You can find out more about how to take part by visiting www.thebigdo.com.



