From Teen Mum to Founder: Smethwick Woman's Journey to Support Single Parents
Alicia Douglas, now 41, faced immense challenges as a teenager when she became pregnant at 17, living in a hostel with her baby's father sent to prison just before she gave birth. Determined to build a better life, she worked tirelessly through her pregnancy, taking on any job available, often until her feet were raw from exhaustion.
Reflecting on her early years, Alicia said, "I was out on my own in the world at 17. He was my first love, first everything, I thought I was going to be with him forever." Her journey from that difficult start to founding Inward Parenting, a Birmingham-based support group for single mums, is a testament to her resilience and dedication to helping others avoid similar struggles.
Overcoming Adversity as a Young Mother
As a single mum, Alicia experienced financial hardships, including overdue bills that brought her to tears and the constant juggle of childcare and work. She recalled pushing her son up a hill to nursery, then running to catch a bus to her job, only to face lateness issues and mounting nursery fees. "I remember opening the door and seeing a red bill, it was overdue, it was a lot of money. I just dropped to my knees and started to cry," she shared, noting this moment fueled her future efforts.
Despite these obstacles, Alicia avoided relying on benefits, driven by a desire to provide for her son independently. Her determination led her to project coordination roles and training courses, eventually paving the way for her to become a senior project manager. Today, her son is 23, and her daughter, 17, is applying for university, marking a stark contrast to Alicia's own life at that age.
Creating Inward Parenting: A Lifeline for Single Mums
In 2026, Alicia established Inward Parenting to offer practical and emotional support to single mothers in Birmingham. Unlike other groups, her firsthand experience allows her to connect deeply with members, addressing issues like financial management, credit scores, and intergenerational trauma through a six-week parenting programme.
"I wanted to make sure there were spaces for women to understand that there's a lot of us going through it, and we're holding onto it like it's shameful, but it's the truth and it's our reality," Alicia explained. The programme also includes pampering sessions and certificates to celebrate participants' achievements, fostering a sense of community and empowerment.
Expanding Reach and Future Goals
Alicia is currently training to become a counsellor through a university course and is actively seeking collaborations with schools and GPs to expand Inward Parenting's reach. She aims to secure further funding to support more women, ensuring they have access to resources and a network of understanding peers.
Her story underscores the importance of resilience and community support in overcoming life's challenges. As she continues to nurture Inward Parenting, Alicia remains committed to helping single mums navigate their journeys with confidence and hope.
